Thinking of Coming Out?

	Duration: 05:34 minutes Upload Time: 07-08-10 11:25:54 User: RobNorthampton :::: Favorites :::: Top Videos of Day
Description: When you are gay it's never easy to 'come out of the closet', but it's essential for your own self-esteem and happiness.
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cryallyoucan ::: Favorites your videos are giting better and better ive had my mom watch all of thim and shes more opend minded now thanks ^-^ 07-09-16 00:40:21 __________________________________________________
RobNorthampton ::: Favorites Thanks Curt. It was a kind of snap decision. I was looking at someone's Coming Out vid, and one of the kids asked him for advice. When I did a search on YT, I couldn't find anything, so thought I'd have a go. It's gratifying to know that one or two have been helped a little. :-) 07-09-14 14:07:21 __________________________________________________
OhCurt ::: Favorites I love that you decided to do these videos. Over here in the states, National Coming Out Day is next month sometimes (I forget exact date), so hopefully we'll see a lot of videos on this spring up by then. Your experience with coming out to your family sounds terrific. And I'm sure I don't have to tell you how fortunate you are that it went that way. Never had any major negativity in regards to that here, but there was always a bit of 'frost' on top of things as a result. 07-09-14 12:48:01 __________________________________________________
RobNorthampton ::: Favorites Thanks for watching. You have pretty eyes btw :-) 07-09-13 23:23:00 __________________________________________________
brobill19 ::: Favorites pretty good video, and thats totally true, thanks for the tips 07-09-13 20:52:19 __________________________________________________
DlVlNATl0Nx ::: Favorites Hello 07-09-13 20:44:32 __________________________________________________
RobNorthampton ::: Favorites Hi Matthew! Welcome to YT and to my lickle channel. I'm fairly new myself, but it's all good fun. By all means subscribe, but I can't always promise to be sensible! :-) Thanks for commenting! Rob :-) 07-09-13 07:53:48 __________________________________________________
macco360 ::: Favorites Thank you for your brilliant and honest analysis. The most SENSIBLE advice on you tube. I'm new to the tube but I look forward to watching your videos. Well Wishes -Matthew 07-09-13 03:34:41 __________________________________________________
timido66 ::: Favorites It is liberating once you've come out. Good tips. 07-09-09 02:24:50 __________________________________________________
RobNorthampton ::: Favorites When coming out to other friends, use your judgement, Camilla. If you think they may be okay, and you want them to know, you can but try. Some of them may surprise you. Good luck! Keep smiling, the worst is over! :-) Rob x 07-09-06 07:00:24 __________________________________________________
RobNorthampton ::: Favorites I don't know how long it is since your Mom was told, but sometimes parents have to go through a kind of grieving process before they truly accept you. That can sometimes take a couple of years. If possible, show her my vids aimed at parents. Hopefully, given time, she will realise that you are the same person and love you just the same.. 07-09-06 06:59:50 __________________________________________________
RobNorthampton ::: Favorites Hi Camilla, and I'm so sorry to hear about your 'friend'. It is a sad fact of gay life that once people in our circle know, they can often show their true colours. If anything, at least it shows people up for what they are, and with friends like that, who needs enemies? I'm sure you will make new, better friends who will stand by you and support you whenever needed. :-) x 07-09-06 06:53:21 __________________________________________________
maltemand ::: Favorites and before i told her we used to have a really good relationsship but after i told her, our whole relationsship has changed..we actually never talk anymore :-( but i am lucky to have my dad and my brother, they have been really surportive :-)))) i'm thinking about coming out to my other friends, but even though your videos made me feel better i am still scared.... anyway, great videos take care and sorry for my bad english 07-09-05 13:35:46 __________________________________________________
maltemand ::: Favorites hi robnorthamton you send me a messages for a while ago and now i have watched all your great videos..and it's so true what you say in your videos... yesterday i came out to my best friend, i really throught she would take it okay, but she spitted on me and called me an ungly and disgusting whore...she was my best friend, so i'm just so down now :-( my mom knows that i am gay too.. 07-09-05 13:27:51 __________________________________________________
coolsteven2 ::: Favorites omg so tru 07-09-04 17:10:44 __________________________________________________
RobNorthampton ::: Favorites One thing that occurred to me was that if you haven't come out yet, you are unlikely to comment on this vid. That's cool, but if you want to comment or ask me anything, you could message me on my channel page maybe? Keep smiling! :-) Rob x 07-08-31 12:48:01 __________________________________________________